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Wednesday, June 17, 2020

I know blogging isn't cool anymore,but still thought of sharing some thoughts through this because why not. Grammar nazis ismein jazbaat dekhein jazbaat galtiyan nai☺

1. Be Grateful

This is the most important lesson that I have learned in this Quarantine period. I have realized how privileged I am to have all these resources. There are a whole lot of things that we have been taking for granted, like right now we are at home we get food three times a day and obviously we know a lot more than 3 times a day because we go on searching for something to eat in the fridge at least 10 times or even more. we should be thankful for everything we have and at the same time help the people who are not that privileged. See around you, offer someone food, help someone in any way you can because these are very tough times or maybe the toughest of times this generation will ever see. We always see news, scroll through social media and hear the sufferings of people out there, we do think about it for sometime then we go on with our lives but the people out there they keep on suffering. So this is the time that we don't forget that people are suffering and help them in any way we can. Be grateful for what you have. so during this quarantine I have stopped complaining about the things I used to complain, realized the value of things around me.I am grateful for everything I have and you should be too and use your privilege for helping others.




 2.Mental health is important

Mental health is as important as Physical health. Like we know eating an Apple is good for health and eating junk food is bad for health the same way we should know what is good and bad for our mental health. whatever we do in our everyday lives it affects our mind in some way. We should know which activities make us happy and do them more often. We should keep toxic people away and our loved ones close. Be around people who push us to be a better version of ourselves and kick out people who only spread negativity in our lives .If things get tough we should be patient , take things one at a time and reach out for help.





3.Social Media

Social media can be very good but it can also be very bad at sometimes it depends on how you use it. There are a lot of people out there on these platforms who are spreading positive Vibes but at the same time you will find a lot of hatred too .You can go in any comment section and find people fighting like mad dogs and mostly those people have no logic in whatever they say, they are just attention seekers. we should know and keep in mind that social media is a place where people only show their ideal selves and  not their actual selves. social media can turn out to be a very bad place for you if you start comparing yourself to others, there's no point in watching someone's profile and thinking wow he is so productive and good at everything and here I am sitting binge watching tv series because sometimes it's ok to just sit back and relax and do absolutely nothing for sometime,refresh your mind,don't do anything just because the world is doing it ,if someone has learned 10 recipes then don't go on and start learning 10 recipes, do what you really like and not  what others are pressurizing you to do. once you stop comparing yourself to others and start being a better person then you were yesterday, social media can no longer affect you and you can use social media in the best way possible.



4.Family is everything

Wherever you go in life you will always find that people will love you or like you according to your qualities as a person but family is the only place where you will be loved irrespective of your flaws and shortcomings. While growing up we sometimes start giving more importance to our friends and argue with our parents when they say ye dosti kuchh Kam Nahin Aaegi , the point is we do make some friends who become our family but the truth is they won't be able to be there for you at all times even if they want to because they have a family too, it's not possible for them to be there for you every time but family will always be there for you in times of failures and losses, you will always have a shoulder to lean on and cry your heart out  and then again stand up and be ready to face the challenges of life. There are people who don't have families I can't even imagine how hard it is for them while growing up they have no one to back them up in times of failure. So try to spend as much as time you can with your family and you will always have strength to face any number of challenges in your life.


 5.Kindness never goes out of style

Kindness never goes out of Style and kindness is what we need the most in these tough times. even small acts of kindness can have a big impact, give a toy to your house helps kid, call and tell someone if you like their work ,listen to someone's problems and offer them whatever you can. Your every small interaction with someone can be a opportunity to have a positive impact on both of your life ,it's not about impressing everyone you meet but leaving a good impression on everyone you meet isn't a bad idea either. All the small acts of kindness is what makes us human ,it sparks a light inside us without us knowing, it helps us grow ,mature, be a better person everyday and most importantly stay human. Stop judging people around you and try to understand their perspective, spread love and you will see the universe will give it back to you in unimaginable ways.



Another very important thing that I learned in this quarantine is the word "quarantine".

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I know blogging isn't cool anymore,but still thought of sharing some thoughts through this because why not. Grammar nazis ismein jazbaat...